Worried

Why do I feel it necessary or even warranted to worry about family and friends so much? Isn't it their own life to live? Does what I say even matter in the real scheme of things? Chris has told me many times through the years that I need to stop this 'worry' that I do, but I haven't yet. Anyway, I am going to pray and try to let it go. It's not bad, what I am worrying about, just important and I don't want this person to make a mistake. But back to the beginning, "Does what I say even matter?"