Delicious but sad

Gail left today to go stay with Mom for a week, but not before going to church with us and then preparing a delicious lunch to all eat together. We set a new record of people sitting at the table with 11! Go us! Mom arrived at the house around 1:45 and we ate and visited until about 4 when Gail and Mom left. I was sad to see them both go and I was slightly concerned that Miss Daisy was driving Miss Daisy home. My job is to drive Miss Dasiy...

Swimming Saturday

We went out to the pool bright and early this morning to have some fun in the water. Aislinn still can't swim and Brennan and Greyson didn't join us in the morning, but it was still a good time.

We ate, we swam, we talked and we relaxed.

Temple Field Trip

After a quick run into the office, Gail and the kids and I loaded up and headed to the temple.

After we walked around the temple for a little while and sweated off about 5 pounds a piece, we went over to the bookstore and everyone left with a little something. It was a special trip, as it always is. The spirit can always be felt as soon as you get on the temple grounds. I take the kids there often so they can feel it, desire it, and have a goal to go inside.

We love to see the temple!

Never been

I have never been so tired. I am physically and emotionally exhausted. Aislinn is doing well during the day, but the nights have been pure torture. She not only has the surgery to recover from, but a rash that is on her entire torso AND a raging yeast infection from all the antibiotics. I feel so bad for her, but I am doing all that I can. We put her in the bathtub and let her splash water on it gently, I put Vaseline on it, but it only helps temporarily. She feels like she needs to go to the bathroom all the time and there is burning and pain. I'm praying she starts to feel better soon.

To help me out, Gail took all 6 kids on a little field trip to Racetrac and then to Publix. She survived the trip. ;)

Gail is having fun!

The kids are having the best time with "Aunt Gail". She even tried to enjoy the slide...

Notice Thomas standing to the side because his job is to grab her as soon as she lands in the water and pull her to safety. He is just great at that!

Get us out of here!

Dr. Rich removed the drain this morning and said we could go home. We were so excited!

Grandma made us dinner tonight and Gail arrived from Utah! We also had visits from the bishop and the Lugo's. It really feels nice to be home.

Aislinn continues to run a fever, but it responds to the Tylenol and the pain is being managed by the Codeine aspect of it. We feel very blessed.

Hospital, Day 3

On the agenda today was moving around some more and getting the pain under control with Tylenol with Codeine as opposed to morphine. They also removed the catheter. Aislinn got some more visits from those that she loves...

Yoo-Ma and Papa

Grandma

Grandma Kenney brought the kids by for a short visit again, and of course, Chris and I were right by her side.

Aislinn started running a fever tonight though of about 101.8 so they gave her some Tylenol. She wasn't experiencing pain at that time, so we did not want them to give her the Tylenol with Codeine. We suggested to just give her Motrin, since the nurse pointed out that she wouldn't be able to have the Tylenol with Codeine for 4 more hours if she did start experiencing pain, but the nurse apparently didn't want to call the doctor, so we went forward with the plain Tylenol.

Of course, about an hour before they could give her the Tylenol with Codine, she was crying in pain. It was pure torture for me as her mother. We ended up having the nurse give her the morphine through her IV but it wasn't until after she cried and begged for help. She told us she "can't take this anymore" she asked why "nobody wouldn't help her". It was awful. I cried to the nurse. I'm afraid I'll never forget how bad I felt for her.

Hospital, Day 2

Aislinn puts on a smiley face for the camera but I'll tell you that last night was really rough. She woke up about every 2 hours crying in pain and they had to keep administering morphine. It was a super long night and it is very rough to hear her crying out for help.

Thanks to the breathing tube that they placed in her mouth to assist with breathing during the surgery, Aislinn came out with one less tooth! The tooth fairy even visits Arnold Palmer Hospital! Isn't that great?
The hospital offered pet therapy for the children today and a little before noon, the dog arrived to visit Aislinn for a few minutes. It is so sweet all of the things that the hospital does to make the children more comfortable and to help them feel better emotionally. On top of a great visit from that dog, she got a sweet visit from her siblings and cousin. Grandma Kenney arrived with the kids a little after noon and they visited and doted on Aislinn for around 30 minutes. All of us were glad to see each other. The kids also brought gifts for Aislinn to enjoy here and at home. It was very thoughtful of them. After the kids left, we needed to get Aislinn a sponge bath and get her out of bed and walking. Sounds easy, right? Nope. It was awful! She stood with the help of Chris and was immediately screaming in pain. She had tears rolling down her face and it was so hard to watch. She would cry for me but push me away. They had to give her more morphine and when that kicked in, they gave her a sponge bath that was still quite painful, but we got it done.

Around 6 this evening, Aislinn said that she wanted to walk to the toilet that is about 10 feet from her bed. Chris lifted her out of the bed and onto the floor. He stood on one side, I was on the other, and Aislinn's nurse walked behind with the IV pump. We slowly made it to the bathroom and back. It was a success but she was immediately uncomfortable as soon as she got back in bed. She continues to get morphine every 2 hours and sometimes Tylenol in between to help take the edge off. I've never seen anything like this.

Obviously, we can't go home with morphine. She has to stay on all the machines monitoring heart rate, respiratory rate and oxygen level while she is on it, so we have quite a way to go. They are hoping to remove the catheter tomorrow and when they do, she will have to be able to get up and go to the restroom. That is going to be quite rough. Sounds to me like tomorrow will be another long day.

Surgery day

We arrived at the hospital at 7 this morning and got checked in. We were moved to pre-op around 8 and then Aislinn was taken back to surgery around 9. The surgery lasted about 2 and a half hours. They called from the operating room 3 times to tell us things were going well and to also see if they could do some local anesthesia on Aislinn that would make her numb at the surgery area for about 8 - 12 hours. That way, she could come out of anesthesia without experiencing pain. We gave the go-ahead for that.

After the surgeon was done, he came out and talked to us. He did find the remaining portion of that duplicative ureter. It was about 7 times the size of the working one and it was all in behind the bladder and attached to the vagina. Although he could not see, or find an entry point into the vagina, the ureter was obviously swollen and he said "full of puss" and infection. It also caused thickening of the bladder wall and was almost certainly the reason for the recurrent and severe infections. He did re-implant the working ureter and felt that the surgery was and would be, successful.

It was about 3 before we were given a room and Aislinn's pain increased throughout the day as the local anesthesia wore off. They have her on morphine for pain. I was also quite startled when I saw that her urine is red. It was pretty much all blood and it is supposed to get better as the days pass. Needless to say, the pain is much worse this time around, but we are hoping this is the last surgery that she will have to go through!

See below for some snapshots throughout the day.

Pre-surgery

Recovery

In room, post- morphine

Pool Party!

Doesn't everyone celebrate like this the night before surgery?

On my list of things to get done before I leave the house for days was have the pool in tip top shape! Getting food was on there too, but I'm not sure it was ahead of the pool clearance as far as the remaining kids were concerned.

Job complete!

First words

The first words out of her mouth today, "Is it surgery day?" Not today, my baby girl, tomorrow.

It's a go

The surgery coordinator called me this morning and said that Aislinn's urine was fine and that the surgery was good to go ahead. She told us to arrive at Arnold Palmer Hospital by 7 Thursday morning and that the surgery is scheduled to take 2 and a half to 3 hours. The doctor, Dr. Rich, will speak with us before and after the surgery and we will be there for at least 3 days. I'm thinking that given the time of arrival, that she won't be into surgery until around 9 or later. So, it's going to be a long day. She will be in recovery for a little after the surgery and then put in a room.

Chris and I will be at her side the entire time. I'm thinking that it is a blessing and a curse for us knowing how it all goes in a way. We've done this before and we've seen how rough it is on her. I don't like it, not one bit.

She is going to receive a blessing from her father tonight.

Chris was super busy

Chris stayed home while we went to Mom and Dad's and worked on his 'honey do' list.

The girls finally have drawers and I finally don't have Aislinn's clothes in my closet.

Brennan got some new drawers since his were not working any more and I finally got him some more 'appropriate' for his age bedspreads.

Hudson ward

We got up.

We ate.

We dressed.

We posed.

We worshiped.

We came back to Yoo-Ma's and Papa's for a few hours before we headed home. We sure had fun but we missed Chris.

Crazy fun

The kids and I headed over to Mom and Dad's this morning. We arrived there a little before lunchtime and Diamond, the cat, found refuge in between the mattresses! It was too funny.

The kids love to go to Yoo-Ma's and Papa's and they had a great time eating and doing what they do.

Look at those kids up there loving on their grandparents!

I have some amazing parents!
Ryan arrived around 3 this afternoon and it was so nice to see him. He is my nephew, but is only 9 years younger than me and I just love him to death. He has lived in California for the last several years, so it was certainly nice to have a visit.

What a crew!

This evening, before bed, Yoo-Ma sat with the boys and listened to them read. They all absolutely loved it!

I took one for "the team"

I went to see Harry Potter with Chris tonight because I am a loving wife.

I have to say it was pretty good...

Luaklan is double digits!

Number 3 of 5 is 10 today! It is hard to believe, but it is in fact true! After a quick morning at school, we got our suits on and headed to Blizzard Beach for a few hours.

On the way home from the park, he asked if we were going to dinner as a family. I hadn't planned on it, but he was upset that we weren't, so I pulled one together.

Grandma, Uncle Ricky and all of us met at Lampu for a tasty dinner in honor of the birthday boy! Just missing was Kerstyn. :( Who I am sure is having a BLAST at her first Girl's Camp! She comes home tomorrow.

Productivity

Tonight we arrived early at the church for me to participate in 2 Board of Review's. Ethan and John were both progressing to Star rank and we talked to them about what they learned, what they liked, why they do scouting and all that good stuff.

The boys had been at our house since Tuesday afternoon having their last sleepover before Ethan flies to Wyoming on Sunday. He's moving away again and Brennan's pretty sad about it. The 3 boys had a great time together.

Brennan received 7 merit badges tonight, which should make him ready to earn his Life rank. Next up, Eagle! Way to go Brennan!

Making progress

We stopped at IKEA on the way back from Animal Kingdom on Saturday to get Lauklan a shelf that he has wanted for months to store his Lego collection on and in. His birthday is Thursday. So, we went in and left with a shelf...

and quite a bit more. We got 3 dressers, one for each of the kids' bedrooms. None of them have ever had a dresser. They have only used cheap plastic drawers. So now, they have some drawers. Well, let me clarify. Lauklan and Greyson have their dresser. The other two rooms will have to wait until Chris gets the time to put them together.The boys and I worked and worked this afternoon. We were all pretty excited about the finished product.

We also got 2 mattresses while at IKEA. One for Kerstyn, Aislinn and Brennan. All of them were in desperate need for new ones. Each of the kids also got new pillows and sheets.

It was quite a productive trip. Stay tuned for more pictures. ;)

The last steps

I called the surgery coordinator today to confirm that she received the fax giving Aislinn surgery clearance from the asthma doctor. Of course, they hadn't. So, I called the asthma doctor and asked that they send it again. I also had to take Aislinn to give her urine sample.

Now, we wait and see.

I will call the urology office again in a few days to make sure that she has the correct paperwork. I certainly don't want the surgery to not happen because of something I didn't do.

Keep praying. It is working.